So they ask you if the reason you agreed to be theirs was because you were lonely. No, you say. Of course not. Instead, you feel even more lonely when you land yourself in a relationship. Problems with a friend is easily solved. Talk to other friends. They don't have to put themselves in friend A's position, because they are in the same position, thus, an honest, understandable opinion from friend B about friend A's position.

Argue with Lover A about something. There are no Lover Bs or Cs to tell you their opinions. The question, the formula, and the result all relies on that one person, and that person alone.

What I learnt through the numerous encounters with a close friend, or someone more than a friend, is, you've got to be strong, or at least pretend. So when they tell you something you don't want to hear, just hear it and NEVER once let out an inkling of the fact that you despise that certain subject matter.

Because, they will use it against you to intentionally hurt you when they find out what ticks you off.

Then again, real friends, or real lovers would never stab you on your weakest spot.

So, they tell you to apologise, for the sake of apologising. When you don't, they say its pride. Now you sit and wonder if all their apologies in the past were just a getaway flight from getting involved in more issues. Don't apologise if you don't want to. Don't apologise if its only for the sake of making the other party satisfied.

I am not drowning in my pool of pride. I just haven't found a valid reason for apologising. So you say it hurts, but I don't believe what I did actually hurts you, or if your own paranoid thoughts did all the hurting yourself. Be patient, and reasonable. I will apologise, on my own account. Not because you tell me to.

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